Blind Dating Part 1

It’s so strange that 2 blind dating was awaiting for me after Chinese New Year. I was reluctant but after getting scolding from my mum I decided to give it a try.

I first met up with my aunt choice Kelvin, he is my aunt nephew Lawrence friend. It turns out to be a really bad experience for me. We met on 18 February 2018 at JP. The initial time was 3pm but at 2.15pm he told my aunt to change time to 4pm as Lawrence car broke down and was waiting for the tow car.  

Florence accompany me to meet him, she was instructed by my aunt to introduce us so that we don’t feel awkward. We went KFC to look for him and I had a big shock. He failed the first impression, he wore loose T-shirt, short pants and slippers. He does not respect this meeting at all. He said he needed coffee so we proceed to Starbucks. It’s so embarrassing at the Starbucks because he said out loudly, “Wow… look like library”, as they were many students studying over there and occupying the seats. Florence and I pretend not to hear and do not know him, we slowly walk out. We went to The Coffee Bean and Tea Leaf, he headed outside as they were no empty seats, and complained about the hot weather. I ignore him and went to order my drink, lucky 1 family finished their drinks and left so I quickly ask Florence to sit there. Florence was so awkward and Whatsapp me hinting she will leave soon, partly she wanted to leave early because she was disgusted by him.

I can’t stop looking at his dirty fingernails while chatting, it damn gross. I really want to end this session but do not know how to tell him, all I can do is stare at my watch hoping time will pass faster. From his conversation, he does not want to get married at all, why does he agrees to meet and waste my time. Suddenly I pop this question to him, since he stay at Tampines, did he took train to come here. I knew Lawrence is the one who fetch him but he told me he took a taxi here. His answer reassurance me that this guy is all bullshit. I can’t stay with him any longer, after 5 minutes I told him I need to leave. He wanted to send me home, but I told him no need as it’s just a 15 minutes bus trip, his house is farther and should faster go take a cab home and rest. We did exchange hand phone number but did not contact at all.

I complained to my mum about him, she did not expect it to turn out this way and quite angry my aunt introduce me this kind of person. We dare not tell my aunt about the bad meeting, my mum just told her it’s not possible between us. Florence is the one who told my aunt that this guy does not respect the meeting at all and why introduce to me. I was given 2 days MC as I having high fever, serious sore throat, running nose and cough. This bad experience really traumatise me.